January 29, 2025
So you’re newly engaged—congratulations! Cue the champagne, the selfies with the ring, and all the “OMG you’re getting married!” texts. But once the confetti settles, it’s time to dive into wedding planning. Let’s face it: that to-do list can start to feel longer than the guest list.
Don’t worry, though! At Pointe D’Vine, we’ve seen it all—from picture-perfect moments to last-minute mishaps (like when the flower girl decided the aisle was her new dance floor). To help you navigate the madness, we’ve put together five resolutions to keep your planning stress-free, joyful, and uniquely you.
Let’s make 2025 the year of dream weddings—with minimal meltdowns and maximum fun.
1. Do What Speaks to You as a Couple (Even If Grandma Side-Eyes It)
Tradition is great, but your wedding should feel like you. Want to skip the cake cutting? Do it. Prefer tacos over a formal dinner? Go for it. Thinking of a disco ball instead of chandeliers? Shine bright like a diamond, baby.
Before you dive into planning, sit down with your partner and discuss what’s most important to you. Write it down (yes, on actual paper), so you have a roadmap when decision fatigue sets in. Remember: this day is about you two. Pointe D’Vine offers the perfect backdrop for any vision, whether it’s a cozy indoor gathering or a sweeping outdoor soirée on our Mississippi River bluffs.
2. Be Realistic and Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff (Seriously, Let It Go)
Your guests will not notice if the napkins are the wrong shade of blush or if one centerpiece is slightly off-center. They will notice how you react when something doesn’t go as planned. So take a deep breath and roll with it.
Here’s the deal: no wedding is 100% perfect, but that’s what makes it memorable. Didn’t get every photo on your list? You’ll still have stunning shots. Did the DJ play “Macarena” when you specifically said no? Laugh it off and join the dance.
Pro tip: Be flexible with your timeline. While it’s your day, no one wants to wait three hours for dinner because the photos ran long. Keep your caterer happy, and trust us—hot food is a universal crowd-pleaser.
3. In a World of DIY, Hire the Professional (Whenever Possible)
DIY can be charming, but it’s also code for “Do It Yourself… and Your Partner… and Your Mom… and That Friend Who Kind of Knows Photoshop.” If that’s not your vibe, let the pros handle it.
Not crafty? No problem. Hate spreadsheets? Hire a planner. A professional can turn your Pinterest dreams into reality without the 3 a.m. meltdowns. At Pointe D’Vine, we’ve worked with some incredible vendors who know how to keep the day running smoothly.
4. Be Present With Each Other (And Hold Hands Like You Mean It)
Your wedding day will fly by faster than you can say “I do.” One minute you’re walking down the aisle, and the next, you’re waving goodbye to your guests as newlyweds. Don’t let it blur past without pausing to enjoy it.
Take a moment—just the two of you—to soak it all in. Stand together, look around, and appreciate the people who came to celebrate your love. Bonus points if you sneak away for a private toast under the stars.
And hey, delegation is your friend. Let your bridal party, family, or trusted vendors handle the details while you focus on what really matters: each other.
5. Embrace the Fun and Laugh at the Chaos
Planning a wedding is a wild ride, but it’s also one of the most exciting adventures you’ll take together. There will be moments when things don’t go as planned—like when Uncle Joe’s dance moves take out the dessert table—but those are the stories you’ll laugh about for years.
At Pointe D’Vine, we’ll make your big day as stress-free and magical as possible. Our stunning venue options, perched on the bluffs of the Mississippi, are the perfect setting for any celebration. Contact us today to schedule a tour or start planning the wedding of your dreams.
Here’s to years of love, laughter, and happily ever after!
